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Family, future worries, and stress about the state of the world

Today, the mental health of children and young people is challenged in many ways. It must also be fostered.

Dino Demar­chi, Pro Juventute

More and more young people are seeking help. ‘Our 147 coun­sel­ling service has been recei­ving a growing number of enqui­ries since Covid,’ says Dino Demar­chi, Head of Public Rela­ti­ons at Pro Juven­tute. Young people are incre­asingly preoc­cu­p­ied with profound problems: Today, the coun­sel­ling service recei­ves an average of 13 enqui­ries per day from young people with suici­dal thoughts. This is more than three times as many as before the pande­mic. This is having an impact on crisis inter­ven­ti­ons. They have reached a record high. Five years ago, it was neces­sary for an emer­gency service to be deployed once a week.

Today, we have to call them in every other day,’ says Demar­chi. ‘We are watching deve­lo­p­ments with great concern. And it shows the importance of easily acces­si­ble coun­sel­ling services.

Dino Demar­chi, Pro Juventute
Ales­san­dra Weber, Kinder­seele Schweiz

The 2022 health survey conduc­ted every five years by the Fede­ral Statis­ti­cal Office also recor­ded a gene­ral increase in the number of people with mental stress. Ales­san­dra Weber, Mana­ging Direc­tor of Kinder­seele Schweiz, points out that there has been an increase among young people between the ages of 15 and 24 in parti­cu­lar: 22% are affec­ted. Kinder­seele Schweiz is commit­ted to the mental health of child­ren and young people. The focus is on those with parents who are under mental stress. Weber menti­ons various possi­ble reasons why this group is parti­cu­larly seriously affected.

The rest­ric­tions during the pande­mic, the incre­asing pres­sure to perform at school and in educa­tion, and the gene­rally tense global situation.

Ales­san­dra Weber, Kinder­seele Schweiz

Crisis after crisis

Thomas Ihde, Pro Mente Sana, Psych­ia­try Spitä­ler Fruti­gen Meirin­gen Interlaken

Climate change and the war in Ukraine, the decline of demo­cracy and econo­mic warfare – the over­lap­ping of various crises is shaping the current situa­tion. This multi- or permacri­sis is affec­ting child­ren and young people. The decisive factor, howe­ver, is not the sheer amount. Emotio­nal stress is incre­asing as infor­ma­tion enters the daily lives of young people through diffe­rent chan­nels. Thomas Ihde, Chair of the Pro Mente Sana Foun­da­tion Board and Execu­tive Chief Physi­cian of Psych­ia­try at Spitä­ler Fruti­gen Meirin­gen Inter­la­ken, explains: ‘In a 30-second Tiktok video, you’ll see a young man talking about life in Gaza.’ The videos convey the feelings of the expe­ri­en­ces. Emotio­nal distance fades. Even jour­na­li­stic vehic­les such as Tages­schau would focus on people’s feelings instead of provi­ding objec­tive report­ing. ‘This is a new pheno­me­non,’ says Ihde. It causes stress and strain. You have to endure with nega­tive feelings toge­ther. Howe­ver, this does not neces­s­a­rily make sense. He says:

That’s why the ability to regu­late my feelings is much more chal­len­ged today.

Thomas Ihde, Pro Mente Sana, Psych­ia­try Spitä­ler Fruti­gen Meirin­gen Interlaken

Last year, Pro Juven­tute inves­ti­ga­ted how young people are doing in the youth study published for the first time. Accor­ding to the study, young people spend four to five hours a day online. ‘That’s why it’s important that they learn how to deal with the media healt­hily at an early stage,’ says Dino Demar­chi. ‘They need to be able to distin­gu­ish credi­ble sources from fake news. They must be able to shape their media use cons­truc­tively.’ The evalua­tion shows posi­tive expe­ri­en­ces with social media. ‘50% of respond­ents use the chan­nels to main­tain cont­acts and friend­ships, which is viewed posi­tively,’ he says. 20% have even made new friends via social media. But 14% say that they perceive social media as a stress factor. The study also shows that around a quar­ter are concer­ned about the state of the world and society. The results reveal diffe­ren­ces. Women respond­ents are more concer­ned about inju­s­tice, lack of tole­rance and the future in gene­ral. For young men, poli­ti­cal deve­lo­p­ments, social divi­sion, disin­for­ma­tion and arti­fi­cial intel­li­gence are more important. Despite the strain caused by global deve­lo­p­ments, the biggest stress factors are school stress, gene­ral pres­sure to perform, finan­cial worries and one’s own future pros­pects. These are the factors on which the secu­rity of one’s own posi­tion depends. Dino Demar­chi says: ‘There can be pres­sure to perform in order to attain a secure posi­tion in a world shaped by uncer­tainty. And that can be mentally stressful.’

Focus on families

Anne de Mont­mol­lin, As’trame

For young people, it is the family that should provide a sense of secu­rity. For As’trame, it remains a central unit of society. This is where the foun­da­tion gets invol­ved. In French-spea­king Switz­er­land, it offers mental health support to child­ren, young people and their fami­lies in the event of a death or serious illness, mental illness of a rela­tive, or paren­tal sepa­ra­tion. Child­ren are parti­cu­larly affec­ted by these misfor­tu­nes. As’trame also notes an increase in the number of cases. To reach child­ren and young people affec­ted, the foun­da­tion focu­ses on raising aware­ness among profes­sio­nals who are alre­ady in cont­act with these fami­lies. ‘So far, little has been done for the child­ren,’ says Anne de Mont­mol­lin, Mana­ging Direc­tor of As’trame. ‘They often go under the radar. That’s why we’re raising aware­ness among profes­sio­nals. This is one reason why we have more cases.’ But the conse­quen­ces of the pande­mic are still being seen. It took a toll on many families. 

So far, little has been done for the children.

Anne de Mont­mol­lin, As’trame

Brea­king down prejudices

Fami­lies are essen­tial to children’s well-being. Parents are ther­e­fore also a parti­cu­lar focus at Kinder­seele Schweiz. ‘Parents with mental health condi­ti­ons have a parti­cu­larly diffi­cult time,’ says Ales­san­dra Weber. ‘They are quick to be pill­oried in public discourse. Their ability to bring up child­ren is ques­tio­ned or it is even suggested that they should not have had child­ren. That’s absurd.’ Many of those affec­ted would wait a long time to seek help because of these preju­di­ces. They would only react if they were no longer able to cope with the various pres­su­res at all. ‘That’s not good for them or the child­ren,’ says Weber. She empha­si­ses that people with mental health condi­ti­ons can be just as good and loving parents as those who do not suffer from them. Some­ti­mes they just need tempo­rary support. Even though these preju­di­ces still exist, Weber has noti­ced a change in the last ten years. A grea­ter open­ness to the issue of mental health has become estab­lished in society. ‘The issue is being addres­sed in the media more and more, espe­ci­ally since the pande­mic,’ she says. The pande­mic has rein­forced this issue on many levels and encou­ra­ged various deve­lo­p­ments. Thomas Ihde sees the direct impact of the pande­mic on the mental health of those affec­ted. Depen­ding on the region and the measu­res in place, the impact on the lives of young people and child­ren varied. Today, the pande­mic is seen more as a cata­lyst for exis­ting trends. ‘There was a leap in deve­lo­p­ment that began a long time ago,’ says Ihde. 

Stron­ger stigma

Increased atten­tion to the issue of mental health during the pande­mic has led to a destig­ma­tis­a­tion of the issue. Howe­ver, this needs to be conside­red in a diffe­ren­tia­ted way. The stigma has chan­ged. Thomas Ihde notes a reduc­tion in stig­ma­tis­a­tion asso­cia­ted with other people’s mental health problems. Young people in parti­cu­lar react sympa­the­ti­cally to a friend who is expe­ri­en­cing a mental crisis. At the same time, tole­rance towards people with severe mental health problems or condi­ti­ons has fallen. Condi­ti­ons such as border­line or schi­zo­phre­nia are even more stig­ma­tised today. For a young person with a diagno­sis of this kind, it is more diffi­cult to find a job today than it was 30 years ago. Our society may be beco­ming incre­asingly tole­rant. At the same time, life is shaped by incre­asingly narrowly defi­ned perfor­mance expec­ta­ti­ons. This has conse­quen­ces for child­ren and young people. ‘Child­hood is also getting shorter and adole­s­cence longer,’ says Ihde. ‘Today, we see six-year-olds having a day struc­tu­red around perfor­mance by appoint­ments such as violin lessons.’ Self-stig­ma­tis­a­tion also remains high, he says. ‘If we have trou­ble slee­ping or our thin­king beco­mes incre­asingly nega­tive, we still have trou­ble asking for help,’ says Ihde.

Into­le­rance can also put a strain on child­ren within the family. For exam­ple, if a parent is suffe­ring from mental stress, but this cannot be spoken of at home. This puts a strain on child­ren. ‘They are loyal to their parents – no matter what they expe­ri­ence at home,’ says Ales­san­dra Weber. ‘That’s why it’s rare for child­ren or young people to cont­act us directly. The child­ren are depen­dent on adults looking at their surroun­dings, reco­g­nis­ing that the situa­tion is stressful for them and arran­ging appro­priate support.’ At Kinder­seele Schweiz, it is the parents them­sel­ves who get in touch in just over half of the cases. Other experts include teachers, school social workers, family doctors, paed­ia­tri­ci­ans, psycho­the­ra­pists – and people in the social circle of fami­lies affec­ted. The decisive factor is always when the family gets help. ‘The longer the wait, the grea­ter the risk that the family stress has alre­ady had a nega­tive impact on the children’s health,’ says Weber. ‘Help works best and fastest when parents reco­g­nise that the situa­tion is poten­ti­ally harmful to their children’s health and are open to seeking help for them­sel­ves and their child­ren.’ If this is not the case, the child­ren need another adult care­gi­ver who can be relia­bly there for them. They must be able to talk openly about their mother or father’s health. ‘Child­ren who under­stand the situa­tion and know that their expe­ri­ence is rela­ted to a health condi­tion are gene­rally better able to cope with it,’ says Weber. This can protect child­ren from beco­ming ill themselves.

Change, not conflict

Child­ren and young people also rarely get in touch with As’trame. Parents are the ones who call, sent by profes­sio­nals or at their own initia­tive. Anne de Mont­mol­lin says: ‘We are well known in schools and crèches today. Parents can also find us online or get a direct recom­men­da­tion from another family.’ As’trame’s approach has two focu­ses. One is on child­ren. They should be able to inte­grate what they have expe­ri­en­ced in the course of their lives. The child recei­ves the neces­sary support, which is speci­fi­cally tail­o­red to the needs of their age. This includes groups with other child­ren. This helps them realise that they are not alone in their situa­tion. As’trame’s second area of focus is working with the family. They provide support for parents. The aim is to approach problems toge­ther in the family and thus streng­then it. ‘Follo­wing events such as a death or sepa­ra­tion, the family has to reor­ga­nise itself. We work with this dyna­mic,’ says de Mont­mol­lin. The focus is always on making a lasting impact on the child­ren affec­ted by putting the family back on a stable footing. Child­ren are highly adap­ta­ble. For instance, the death of a family member is awful. For child­ren, this expe­ri­ence can be very diffi­cult. But after that, they can get back on their feet once they have a stable family refe­rence point again. 

If the parents sepa­rate, the child is chal­len­ged by the new life struc­ture. They can adapt to a new situa­tion if the situa­tion is stable and their needs are taken into account. ‘But they can’t adapt to a conflict,’ says de Mont­mol­lin. ‘Espe­ci­ally if the conflict between two parents lasts for a long time. This will have a very nega­tive impact on the child.’ As’trame notes that child­ren who have been expo­sed to this kind of situa­tion for years often have great diffi­cul­ties. In order to achieve a lasting impro­ve­ment for these child­ren, As’trame works in coor­di­na­tion with other profes­sio­nals and services. ‘We work syste­mi­cally,’ she says. ‘We see the child in the family. We take into account the family’s network and we strive to ensure that all profes­sio­nals who work with the fami­lies work in the same direction.’

Sustainable funding

As many of the fami­lies who bene­fit from As’trame’s services are in diffi­cult finan­cial situa­tions, the regis­tra­tion fee is in line with their capa­city. ‘Nevert­hel­ess, it is important that those affec­ted pay a contri­bu­tion them­sel­ves,’ says de Mont­mol­lin. On average, fami­lies pay 20% of the costs. The rest is covered by state funds, foun­da­ti­ons and dona­ti­ons. Pro Mente Sana also has various sources of funding. As an inde­pen­dent mental health orga­ni­sa­tion, it is a point of cont­act for people with mental health condi­ti­ons and their rela­ti­ves. It also advo­ca­tes for its inte­rests poli­ti­cally. ‘People with schi­zo­phre­nia or manic depres­sion don’t have a lobby,’ says Thomas Ihde. ‘Mental illness is also a diffi­cult topic when it comes to coll­ec­ting donations.’

Victim of their own success

After the pande­mic, the foun­da­tion ran into finan­cial diffi­cul­ties due to incre­asing demand and a lack of funding. It became a victim of its own success. Demand for its services rose shar­ply. Howe­ver, funding remained stable. ‘When we were needed the most, we had to get the foun­da­tion back on its feet,’ says Ihde. With the Clivaz motion, the Natio­nal Coun­cil has tasked the Fede­ral Coun­cil with deve­lo­ping funding for natio­nal advi­sory and coun­sel­ling services in the long term, as the range of treat­ments on offer still does not cover demand. This makes acces­si­ble initial points of cont­act such as Pro Mente Sana, Pro Juven­tute and Darge­bo­te­nen Hand all the more important. Pro Juven­tute obser­ves. ‘It’s diffi­cult to find a place,’ says Dino Demar­chi. The demand is there. Curr­ently, one in ten young people is recei­ving profes­sio­nal treat­ment and one in three has alre­ady recei­ved such treat­ment. ‘When we see that the number of calls is growing over­all, and espe­ci­ally regar­ding serious issues, it is a clear sign that we need to act here to support the mental health of child­ren and young people.’

Anne de Mont­mol­lin still reco­g­ni­ses a lack of aware­ness of the problems faced by child­ren in diffi­cult circum­s­tances. There is still not enough being inves­ted in impro­ving mental health in this situa­tion. Howe­ver, she also sees poten­tial: The problem can be over­come if inter­ven­tion comes in time. ‘Our job is to listen and advise, but also to iden­tify resour­ces and help those affec­ted to acti­vate them in order to over­come their diffi­cul­ties. This is the type of action we want to promote.’

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